How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 11:49
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What do most wives fantasize about?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
How rough can the ferry passage from Hull to Rotterdam be in the autumn ( at the end of October )?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Are Indian youths conservative or liberal?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What was your best sex experience that still makes you horny?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why do men like to suck another man’s dick?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Procrastinates a lot.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What does it feel like wearing tights?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What is the best way to end a relationship with someone who has future plans with you?
Do not set goals—set systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How does the narcissist react when he realizes you no longer care?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Does not procrastinate.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How do I get my body in shape?
Making more friends is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What is a narcissist grandmother like, with her grandchild?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.